Where To Take Women On a First Date

Once you get the number from a really attractive woman, you need to be smart in arranging your first date. If you want to GET her, then don’t make the terrible mistake of taking her out for a drink, a movie or a nice candlelight dinner.

Why? Because it doesn’t make her feel that gut level emotion called attraction towards you.

You can’t just do what every other guy before you has done. If you do, you will get what all the other guys she has dated got: the proverbial “Lets be friends speech, ” and maybe a sisterly kiss on the cheek.

And we don’t want that to happen at any costs!

So, in order to be successful when it comes to the initial date, you need to be different than the average Joe blow who is probably unsuccessful with women. Rule # 1; don’t spend any money on her! That just shows her that you are attempting to BUY her affection. Clearly, that is a very bad idea!

It may get some women, (i.e., gold diggers, desperados and leeches) to spend time with you, and you don’t want that do you?

You see, most guys assume they need to take a woman on an expensive and lavish date for her to like them. You know the deal? The type of date we are constantly bombarded with in the movies; candles, music, moonlight, three course meal… yada, yada, yada and blah, blah, blah. But women don’t get that attraction feeling in their stomach when you do what everybody else does.

That’s why she is going on a date with you, to see if you are different! So give her what she wants.

So where do you take her?

Go to the park, tag her and say “you’re IT” and let her chase you. Go window shopping and let her decide what would look good on you. Say “Do you think that bikini over there would suit me? Nah … I think I’m just a little but too sexy for that don’t you think so? *Mischievous grin.*

Try taking something from her like a mirror or make-up or anything and playfully tease her to get them back. If you are flirtatious, frisky and fun about the whole thing and just have a good time, she will become attracted to you just like that.

Oh, and then, there is tickling. This NEVER fails to attract a girl even more towards you. Don’t ask me why but it NEVER fails, as long as you have built up some attraction already.

What about the confidence? Well, you can show her you are confident just by teasing her and jokingly ordering her around. You can show that you make decisions and you aren’t afraid of what she thinks of you.

Then there’s the surprise element. Instead of saying “Would you like to go to the park? I know, it doesn’t sound too good but it can be…” Try saying “Lets go to the park, I’ll even get you some sweets so you don’t have to steal them.”

Now I know many of you guys will like the sound of taking a girl to a park because its cheap and yes its true. You don’t have to spend a single dime. Does it work? You bet it does! Where do you think I take all my first dates? It’s always shopping, then maybe a cup of coffee or the park.

Forget the candlelight dinner, the cinema and the bar for the first date. Stick to what works and what is best for creating attraction: The city, coffee shops and the park.

It never fails.

We’re excited to have Nick Shane as part of the Ask a Playboy team. He is a street-smart Dating-Expert and author of the book "Playboyskool" and several other products that help regular guys like YOU become more successful with women and dating. Get more of his FREE online Dating Tips newsletter at Playboyskool.

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