What Topics Fascinate Women

Sit back and get ready to AMP UP YOUR GAME because David DeAngelo is going to impart some valuable insights to keeping a woman keenly interested in you. Talk about the art of seduction, this is it! In one of the many e-mails he received from a guy looking to expand his horizons with the ladies, Dave gave the advice to learn "what topics fascinate women.”

If you’re not one of those guys born with the gift of gab, you’re going to find this hot dating tip extremely informative. Never again will you find yourself on a date… speechless with nothing to say.

Question
I know you have already recommended a good book on comedy (Comedy Writing Secrets), but what is a good book explaining how to tell stories? And, what are some topics that fascinate women? Any help would be greatly appreciated.

M.G.
Gainesville, FL.

Dave’s Comments:

This is a great question.

There are really two very different (and important) aspects to the "conversations with women" topic:

1. The HOW.

2. The WHAT.

THE HOW...

Most guys want to know "what to talk about" with women.

It only makes sense that you should talk about things that women are interested in... right?

Well... partially.

It is actually FAR MORE IMPORTANT to talk about whatever topic you're talking about in the RIGHT WAY.

In other words, if you don't understand HOW to carry on a conversation that creates ATTRACTION, then it really won't matter WHAT you talk about... because the woman you're talking to won't FEEL anything towards you.

The HOW of conversation includes (but, is not limited to):

* Your body language
* Eye contact
* The Cocky & Funny style of communicating
* Flirting
* Sending mixed messages
* Directing the conversation
* Dealing with common questions and topics
* ...and many other things.

My point is that if you're running into a lot of "uncomfortable silences", nervousness, and other usual challenges, then you probably need to get the HOW handled before the WHAT.

THE WHAT...

With that said, there are several topics that are GREAT to discuss with women.

But instead of just giving them to you, I want you to do yourself a favor and THINK for a minute.

What topics do women PAY to hear about?

	Romance novels
	Cosmo magazine
	Soap operas
	Nighttime dramas
	the fashion channel
	Women's Entertainment... etc.

If you think about it, the answer to this question is rather obvious.

For whatever reason, WOMEN tend to LOVE:

* Drama
* Conflict
* Romance
* Famous people and their lives

So... it's really quite easy to enjoy a conversation with a woman about these topics.

Here are a few ideas:

1. Play amateur psychologist to the stars.

Talk about how someone famous is doing something really stupid, then psycho-analyze them.

Actors, rock stars and famous sports figures just LOVE to do crazy things... cheat on their spouses... and then say, "I didn't do it".

These situations are BEGGING to be picked apart with a fine-toothed, critical, funny, sarcastic mind.

2. Find an interesting looking group of people and guess what's going on.

Look around you, and find a couple sitting at a table that looks like they're on their first date.

Then, start making fun of how the guy is acting, how he's dressed, his posture, or whatever. Talk about how the woman is thinking that he's a dork and how he's not getting any, no matter how many compliments he gives her.

Analyzing what's going on with a close group of others is big fun, and women love it.

3. Make fun of someone famous.

Talk about how a super model is too skinny, or how Ben Affleck can only date women named Jennifer.

All you have to do is read a few gossip magazines to get all kinds of great stuff to make fun of.

It's fun, it's funny, and it's a great way to talk like you're all that.

4. Talk about other people's love lives.

Talk about the problems that others are going through when it comes to love and romance, then volunteer completely ridiculous theories about what's going on.

Mention a friend you had who broke up with his girlfriend because she gained weight, then after you've told the story, make up a random theory about how women who gain weight are actually lesbians.

But, make sure it's funny, whatever you invent.

...I think you "feel me".

The point here is that women are NATURALLY fascinated and drawn to certain topics... so USE THEM.

The REAL benefit of talking to women about topics that really interest them is that you can USE ALL THE OTHER IDEAS THAT YOU'RE LEARNING while you're talking!

You can AMPLIFY THE ATTRACTION as the conversation goes on... as long as you know what else to do as you talk.

Oh, and by the way, here are some topics to avoid like the plague:

	Stalking
	Kidnapping
	Rape
	Death
	Computers
	Video Games
	Techie Stuff
	Wrestling
	AskaPlayboy.com