8 Easy Steps To
Becoming A Great Lover

If you did a survey of women about how men rate as lovers, you would find that a terribly high percentage of men have yet to learn how to sexually please a woman.

Although these men know how to get off, bringing a woman to ecstasy and orgasm is as complicated as trying to diffuse a nitroglycerin-based bomb.

Follow the Ask a Playboy team as we walk you through the eight easiest steps you’ll ever take to become a great lover.

Step #1. Educate Yourself
I’m always amazed when I meet men who figured they could learn how to please a woman by watching porno. Guys, porn is for entertainment purposes only. If you want to learn how to become a great lover, you’ll need educate yourself with the right tools.

At Ask a Playboy we provide the sex education by constantly providing great sex and seduction tips with our Clitoris College, Pick Up Women University and in addition we have the Greatest Sex Guide any man will ever need.

Step #2. Be Connected To Her
One of the greatest steps you can take to becoming a great lover is to recognize that with women, sex involves much more than the act of kissing, sucking, licking, nibbling and penetrating. With women sex starts with the mind and emotions. If you are not connected to her in those two places, no physical sex, no matter how hard you are and how long your erection lasts, will amount to much in her mind.

Step #3. Become Her Stalwart

We live in a chaotic pressured filled world; one that puts enormous stress on both genders on a daily basis. When a woman is feeling stressed, tense, pressured or emotionally drained, her sex life will most likely mirror her mental and emotional anxiety. Plainly put, she won’t be engaging in much sex, let alone enjoying it. It’s up to you to relieve the pressure by becoming her refuge from the storms of life.

Step #4. Fan Her Fire With Foreplay

Every man classified by a woman as a great lover knows that generally speaking, women take longer to become sexually aroused. If you are reading the latest clinical tests that involve a man and woman watching porno flicks together to see how long it takes them to become aroused, your perspective will be skewed; UNLESS you use porno flicks to get your woman’s libido motor jump started!

Foreplay allows a woman’s vagina to become sufficiently lubricated and for her entire body to become prepared for sexual intercourse. Without foreplay, you take the chance of her not being aroused or fully lubricated, which will make for an unpleasant and possibly painful session of sex. May these words ring in your ears: give her foreplay, foreplay, and foreplay!

Step #4. Learn To Talk The Language of Sex

The old school calls it talking dirty, but at Ask a Playboy, we never believed there was anything dirty about arousing your lover with erotic conversation. Sex talk (not to be confused with porn talk) is like an exotic aphrodisiac. It is surefire way to get your woman sexually charged. Find out what stimulates her and then be bold, seductive, alluring and sensuous in your choice of words.

Step #5. Get To Know Her Hot Spots
No woman’s body, mind or spirit is alike. That means what excites and arouses one woman, may have little or no impact on another. This knowledge literally determines whether you will become a great lover or a lousy sex partner. The only way to find her hot spots is to explore her entire body with your hands, tongue, lips, breath and mustache if you have one. (P.S. Some women love the feel of a man’s moustache on certain parts of their bodies.) Locating her hot spots will take time, but it will be worth the expedition!  

Step #6. Eat Out Often
It is an indisputable fact that the majority of women cannot reach orgasm from vaginal penetration alone. Cunnilingus better known as oral sex, or as we call it in sex language 101: ‘eating out or eating pussy,’ is the probably the top way to bring a woman to orgasm. Learn the art cunnilingus and you automatically become a great lover.

We realize that some men dislike and/or detest eating pussy for various reasons we will not discuss in this article. Suffice it to say, you don’t know what you’re missing but she sure does! The sole purpose of the clitoris is to give a woman sexual pleasure and bring her to climax. The two proven methods for stimulating the clitoris are either orally or manually. If you are not eating out, you are not hitting one of her most erogenous and hottest spots. Every great lover eats out!

Step #7. Be Adventurous

Are you guilty of practicing (MSM) Making Sex Monotonous? Remember the saying, “Variety is the spice of life…” That especially rings true for your sex life! To keep things HOT, SPICY and ADVENTUROUS, here’s some delicious suggestions you can enjoy to breakaway from the norm: give and receive various types of massages, have an erotic poetry reading together, persuade her to perform strip teases and belly dances, practice Karma sutra and try sex toys.

A great lover finds different places and times to have sex. Instead of the same bed, they get busy in the kitchen, living room, bathtub and shower. If their neighbors can’t see or hear them frolicking around, they do it in the back yard. You can also be adventurous by engaging in role-playing, (i.e., Dr. and nurse, cop and robber). Do something spontaneous like taking a sex trip to Catalina Island, Belize, the Bahamas or Puerto Rico for a night of eroticism; no phone calls or e-mails, just hot unbridled sensuality and lovemaking.

Step #8. Become Her Pleasure Parlor
When a woman thinks about sex, she should be thinking about the pleasures you’ve given her and the sensual things to come! The only way she’ll envision you in this way is that you are satisfying her sexually. That means as a great lover, you are fanning her fire with foreplay, arousing her and hitting her hot spots. It also means that you are bringing her to climax. As you step into this highly pleasurable role, teasing becomes tantalizing, kisses become Karma sutra and sex becomes lovemaking. Enjoy the journey!

To your success with the ladies,

Kenneth 'Duce' Burton

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About The Author
Kenneth 'Duce' Burton  was a geek without hope. He was destined to be a shy 40-year-old virgin. That was until he immersed himself into learning how to attract and approach women. When he emerged from his training, he instantly became a babe magnet. He was so successful that friends, school buddies and admirers were desperate to pay him to learn his techniques and tricks. He eventually launched one of the  hottest and most successful guides for picking up women and seducing hot girls and the rest is history.

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